How an Office survivor pick up his freinds in the office

you go to work every .its becomes your sec­ond home. you spend there at least 8 hours, and in that time you are involved in some much activity’s:talking with other employ­ees and friends, per­suad­ing your boss,gossiping with oth­ers, lie to sev­eral peo­ple, blind sid­ing sev­eral more-yes, an every day basis for the office sur­vivor –mas­ter in the office pol­i­tics. you need to do what you need to do for sur­vive in the office. so, lets focus on the issue with whom you hang out the most in the office?which peo­ple you pick up to work with ?go to lunches with them? one inter­est­ing arti­cle try to explain and pro­vide some tips how to pick up your friends (http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2009/05/06/how-to-pick-the-people-you-work-with/) though it’s has some good insights(

1. men pick up woman who laugh at his jokes-sad but true –BUT NOT for the “office survivor”.a true sur­vivor see above these Cliche will never fall to these pretty smiles of these nasty women-yes nasty-they know they don’t have much to give in actu­ally work so they try to “pick you up” like in a bar. don’t hes­i­tate to manip­u­late them and even­tu­ally they will stop try­ing and become less laugh­ing which will bring them to become maybe more pro­duc­tive at work and less in try­ing to sur­vive and let you do it.
2. you should hang out with peo­ple who are not bet­ter look­ing than you-well this is a good advice for the aver­age mini per­son who don’t think a lot of him­self. def­i­nitely not for the mas­ter in office-politics. look is not that impor­tant when pick­ing up friends. a friend who hang out with you because you are less good look­ing then him is a leacher and you don’t want to hang out with him-but on sec­ond though, keep going with him,give him the feel­ing is bet­ter than you and look for some Achilles point where you can F% him later.
3. choose peo­ple that swear is writ­ten in that arti­cle but is explained in the wrong man­ner. peo­ple who swear are peo­ple who have con­fi­dence in them self to be open and true. these are good guys and they can be your good friends because they will tell you the true in your face. inspire the team with off color has min­i­mal effect.
4. the last topic was to choose a good mentor-with this we have to agree. you can read about how to find one ‚here:

http://www.theofficesurvivor.com/archives/office-survivor-politics-a-guide-to-find-a-mentor) ok.,we done with the review. lets have some deep insight regard­ing this issue: It all comes down to the fact how you feel about your­self. for an aver­age per­son, the top­ics above are true enough but for the office survivor-office pol­i­tics mas­ter, there are other point to con­sider office sur­vivor don’t know every­thing. all peo­ple don’t know every­thing. but the office sur­vivor is will­ing to admit it ‚will­ing to learn, while the aver­age who pick up friends that are not pretty than him , will prob­a­bly pick ones who are not smarter than him. the office sur­vivor must look for the peo­ple which he think are smarter than him-faster than him. this way he evolves and learn. he is not afraid of them. prob­a­bly because he know that there are not that much out there. and every one is in poten­tial to be his mentor.this is how you become mas­ter in office pol­i­tics. its true that for being an office pol­i­tics mas­ter you need good rela­tion­ships with all type of peo­ple, so don’t go only for the smarter., but don’t pick them because these lame excuses– pick them because you need also the mob to talk to and maybe you will learn from them also. look around you. you will notice that most orga­ni­za­tion sur­round them self with 80 per­cent aver­age and 20% really smart peo­ple. thing where you want to be-if you are a true office sur­vivor do the math. if orga­ni­za­tion would pick up more smart peo­ple and less aver­age, job will be done quicker and some­time the mid man­ager don’t want this. so they will pick 1,2 true office sur­vivors and 10 more to do their bid­ding with­out question’s leav­ing in fear-looking to befriend with not to good looking.…

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